Why we procrastinate on the hard stuff and how to take control
We all put off the things we don’t enjoy from time to time, but inevitably – and for business owners in particular – procrastinating will only lead to even more stress. Leading international motivational speaker and authority on productivity in the workplace, Chelsea Pottenger, explains why we procrastinate and shares her top tips on how to take control and stop putting the hard stuff off.
“It’s not due until Friday, I’ll do it later.”
“I can put off laundry for another day, I’ve still got some clothes.”
“I’ve already eaten a cookie today, I’ll start my diet tomorrow.”
Do any of these sound familiar? We’ve all procrastinated – it’s a part of life. Whether it’s cleaning the house or getting that report done, it’s easy to delay a task for a more instantly gratifying one.
No singular reason causes procrastination. However, if you can dig down to its cause, you may find that it’s easier to put some tools in place to prevent it from happening.
So why do we procrastinate?
Clinical psychologist, Dr Alexander Rozental, says procrastination typically falls into four categories:
- Expectancy: a lack of self-belief that you will achieve the task, or assume you need to be in the ‘right frame of mind’ to complete it.
- Value: a lack of intrinsic motivation. Understanding why the goal is important to you but simply not caring enough to do it.
- Time: the endpoint is too far away. You struggle viewing a project as a priority, or rewarding, if it’s too far into the future.
- Impulsivity: you like the rush of last-minute deadlines. You believe you work better ‘under pressure.’
We rarely procrastinate on things we enjoy or find fun. Instead, we procrastinate on difficult, unpleasant, stressful or boring things. If a task feels overwhelming or promotes a feeling of anxiety, it’s easier to avoid it.
This often has to do with emotional self-regulation, especially the inability to manage negative feelings.
So, how do you identify your habits? Is there a particular thing you are constantly procrastinating on?
Ask yourself the following:
- What are the thought patterns around this?
- Do you understand why you are procrastinating on this task?
- What is stopping you? Is it a lack of urgency, desire, or confidence, or do you want that last-minute rush?
6 tips to take control and stop procrastinating
1. Get an accountability partner
By committing to someone or making a social commitment, you are more likely to feel social pressure to meet the objective. When choosing an accountability partner, it’s key to make sure you find someone supportive, with similar values and beliefs.
2. Get a good why
If you don’t believe in the purpose of the task, it will be challenging to stop procrastinating. For example, doing your taxes only needs to have a simple reason attached: ‘If I don’t do this, I will get fined.’
3. Break it down
Break it down into smaller parts if the task or project seems too big or overwhelming. It’s often much easier when you realise that it’s just a series of small steps, rather than a giant leap. First, write down the big goal, then all the little steps. Then start ticking them off, so you feel rewarded for your progress.
4. Reward yourself
If there is a task that you can’t get up the energy or motivation to do, link it to a reward. For example, ‘after I complete this task, I will get a coffee.’ Or, ‘after I finish the first step on this task, I will go for a swim’.
Our brains love dopamine, so use it to your advantage.
5. Remove distractions
That means turning off all your notifications on your phone, email or TV, putting on noise-cancelling headphones and just getting started.
6. Practice self-compassion
If you find yourself putting off a task, don’t forget that you are only human. Treat yourself with kindness and understanding. Remember, you aren’t the first person to procrastinate, and you won’t be the last.
Looking to improve your self-efficacy, grit and resilience? Come and have a Cuppa with Chelsea Pottenger! In this conversation, you will learn the simple yet powerful shifts to recharge your mental health and perform at your best in work and life.
Friday, 8 April – 7:30 AM AEST.
Want more? Get our newsletter delivered straight to your inbox! Follow Kochie’s Business Builders on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and LinkedIn.
Trending
Technology Speed, support, service: Choose the right internet plan for your business
Technology Shadow AI: The hidden use of AI in Australian workplaces (and why you need to address it)
Productivity Advice How to get laser focused and boost your productivity
Productivity Advice A productivity expert on how to ‘Marie Kondo’ your time
Wellbeing How business owners can reduce stress and anxiety
Chelsea Pottenger is a leading international motivational speaker and an authority on mindfulness and productivity in the workplace. She regularly presents for the likes of Uber, eBay, Estee Lauder, The Australian Defence Force and more to inspire their teams with her science-based productivity and mindfulness methods.
Chelsea started her company EQ Minds after suffering a serious burnout after 12 years in the corporate world, paired with becoming a mum. Once she bounced back, she turned her attention to studying psychology and researching mental fitness, mindfulness and productivity and has been a leading authority in the space for the past 6 years.
EQ Minds works with businesses of all sizes to reduce stress, increase mental wellbeing and enhance productivity through mindfulness. Head to https://www.eqminds.com/ to learn more.
Tags
Big ideas for small business — straight to your inbox
Get the best small business tips, news and advice straight to your inbox! No junk, just real-world insights to help you grow.
Sign up now.
Now read...
5 time-saving tricks I wish I knew earlier
What do icebergs, mice, and groups of three…
Why workplaces need a new productivity manifesto
Every day, we show up to work weighed…
Have some fun! How incorporating play into leadership boosts performance
Playfulness has a powerful role in the workplace…
All chat, no checklist? Yep, that’s work too
A client recently told me about one of those days…
More from Business Builders
5 time-saving tricks I wish I knew earlier
What do icebergs, mice, and groups of three…
Why workplaces need a new productivity manifesto
Every day, we show up to work weighed…
Have some fun! How incorporating play into leadership boosts performance
Playfulness has a powerful role in the workplace…
All chat, no checklist? Yep, that’s work too
A client recently told me about one of those days…
Win the morning, win the day: The power of a 5-9 routine for business owners
Whilst the idea of cultivating a strong routine…
Boss your schedule: Calendar hacks to master your day
Do you feel like your calendar’s running your…












